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Dealing with Anxiety: It’s Not About Your Self-Confidence

    Last week I led a workshop for 國三students on how to deal with test anxiety. From a counseling perspective, effectively handling test anxiety consists of identifying triggers and training the body and mind to respond to them.  Thus, I asked students to name the negative thoughts, feelings, and physical responses that occurred when they sat down to take an important test.  Students reported feeling nervous and worried with their body sometimes feeling too hot or too cold, their hearts racing, and the urge to pick at their fingernails.  They mentioned negative thoughts such as “Other students are smarter or faster than me,”  “What if I fail?” and “I just want to be done with the test and do other things.”  All of these triggers work together to flood the body and brain so that students freeze, forget what they studied, or even sometimes give up.

來,一起禱告

    你曾經參加過教會禱告會嗎?隨著時代變遷與科技進展,禱告會的形式也逐漸改變,教會裡全體的、大型的禱告聚會似乎越來越少見了,取而代之的是化整為零的禱告小團體,QT、RPG…等等。其實,無論規模大小,基督徒們總是需要聚集禱告,如同耶穌的吩咐:「若是你們中間有兩個人在地上同心合意的求什麼事,我在天上的父必為他們成全。因為無論在哪裡,有兩三個人奉我的名聚會,那裡就有我在他們中間。」(太18:19-20)重點不在於人數,而是「同心合意」、「奉主的名」祈求:每個參加的人放下自己手邊的事,專門為著「我們的事」祈求;而這些「我們的事」要如何成就、何時成就、往哪個方向成就,這一群人也同心合意的交托給那成全的主,不再堅持自己的主張與時間表。

上帝不愛我嗎?

    現今的社會步調快速、重視效率,我們也被訓練成凡事不問過程只重視結果;不論是我們在職場工作、家庭的生活、夫妻的互動、子女的教養,甚或是信仰。因此,常常在一些事上,如果結果不令我們滿意,就會感到失落、灰心,甚至懷疑自己的信念。這種只重結果的思維,讓有些弟兄姐妹在信仰中感到失望,覺得上帝不愛他們、都不回應他們的禱告。

搬心家--樂意獻上不完美的器皿(二)

    「所以弟兄們,我以神的慈悲勸你們,將身體獻上,當作活祭,是聖潔的,是神所喜悅的;你們如此事奉乃是理所當然的。不要效法這個世界,只要心意更新而變化,叫你們察驗何為神的善良、純全、可喜悅的旨意。」羅馬書十二1-2